Before the altar.
Before the vows.
Before the celebration.
We made a vow to God.
It wasn’t buttercups and lollipops.
It wasn’t effortless.
It wasn’t perfect.
It was faith.
It was hardship.
It was commitment before comfort.
In this Grief Café reel, we share how choosing obedience before emotion shaped our marriage. We understood that love would require humility, sacrifice, counseling, growth, and merging two lives — including baggage, blended family transitions, spiritual warfare, and identity shifts.
Grief in marriage doesn’t only come through death.
It can show up in:
- Transitions
- Expectations unmet
- Blending families
- Personal growth seasons
- Spiritual battles
- Learning how to become “one”
But when God is the foundation, hardship doesn’t destroy you — it refines you.
We committed to doing it God’s way before we ever stood at the altar.
And that commitment carried us through the hard seasons.
🎥 Watch the full episode here:
Grief, Love & Marriage | What Grief Really Looks Like in Marriage (Testimony) | Grief Café Ep. 2
If you are grieving — whether from loss, transition, or life change — begin your healing journey today with my book:
📖 My Love Letters to the Grieving: You’re Not Alone
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